TRILBY VS FEDORA

By Tenfingerz

Posted 13th September 2020

CHAPTER 1. THE COSTUME SHOP

I had just started working in a costume shop when I was looking for a particular hat to go with a particular outfit for a customer. The most popular costume theme of the time, and perhaps of all time — ‘The 1920s’. Thanks, in part, to The Great Gatsby but mostly due to 1920s outfits providing the themed-party goer with a safe, not too out of the ordinary, glamorous look for an evening. A popular option for a 1920s costume, aside from ‘the flapper’, is ‘the gangster’. A suit, a white satin scarf, perhaps a plastic tommy gun, and for sure, the pinnacle of ‘the gangster’ look™ — a fedora. Or, so I thought.

So, as I fumble my way around my new job as costume stylist, trying to locate a hat to complete this gangster’s outfit, I ask a fellow staff-member, ‘Wherefore art thou fedoras?’

‘Fedoras?’ she replied indignantly. ‘I think you’ll find you mean ... TRILBY. Fedora is another hat entirely.’

And so was my introduction to nerdy costume banter and also to perhaps the greatest millinery-related smear campaign of our time.



CHAPTER 2. LORE OF TRILBY

I now find myself, many years later, deep diving into the history of these two hats and asking the question — when did the trilby become known as the fedora? And why is the trilby, now known commonly as the fedora, such a despised fashion item?

Fedora is a wide-brimmed gal, not at all like her counterpart the trilby. Trilby is shortbrimmed, easy to mass produce, and commonly accompanied by a neckbeard, a vape, or perhaps a mediocre yet overly confident song on a guitar around a campfire.

Fedora is usually felt, classy, and not easily or successfully mass produced. She stands the test of time. Historically, Fedora was a woman’s hat. She rose to fame and popularity in the late 1800s, after being worn by stage actress Sarah Bernhardt while she performed as Fedora in the play of the same name. The hat took its name from the play.




Bernhardt was the most popular actress of her time. She travelled by ship throughout the ‘western’ world and was known to travel anything but light — carrying with her 45 costume crates, 75 crates for her off-stage clothing, and 250 pairs of shoes. She was elegant, influential, and bold. She often dressed in traditional men’s attire and went against the values of the time by playing controversial roles, including once casting herself in the role of Judas. At one time she was banned from performing in Italy because she portrayed sex workers in a positive light. She was in fact the daughter of a French courtesan and at times a sex worker herself.




Critic Maurice Baring wrote of Bernhardt’s performance in the play, Fedora: ‘A secret atmosphere emanated from her, an aroma, an attraction, which was at once exotic and cerebral … She literally hypnotized her audience.’ —




Fedora soon became the must-have hat for women and just like what Bernhadt represented, the Fedora became the symbol for women’s empowerment. In fact, the fedora became the official symbol of the women’s rights movement of the time.




So, Fedora was traditionally a women’s hat. Until it was co-opted by Edward, Prince of Wales in 1924. Fedora then became a man’s domain. Much like what happened with the high heel. Originally a man’s shoe, before jumping the gender binary.

Trilby came from similar origins, taking his namesake from a play of the same name. It was worn by a woman in the title role. Trilby, too, was once a star, and also a hat for women before it was worn by men.

Frank Sinatra popularised Trilby in the 1940s and 50s. My research leads me to believe that this was a time where men wore hats to suit the width of their shoulders. That there were unspoken or maybe spoken rules that governed the width of a brim in ratio to one’s own width. Somehow these width-governing rules seem to have become lost over the years.

So, when Sinatra was campaigning for Trilby — the short-brimmed hat for the slighter-shouldered man — Trilby was true to his namesake: Trilby. At what point, though, did Trilby duck out and into the shadows to allow his fairer counterpart to take the brunt of Trilby’s fall from grace?

When did the fedora become … the trilby?

Did this coincide with the loss of the trilby’s hat lore?



CHAPTER 3. THE CROC OF HEADWEAR?

Please don't get me wrong, I see the functionality and the anti-fashion fashion of the humble croc.

Perhaps Trilby can be compared to another confused version of foot fashion - the barefoot toe-shoe. You know, the shoes that wrap around each of your toes individually? I shudder at the whole premise of those things. Could Trilby be the barefoot toe-shoe of headwear?

However, the metaphorical shoe does not fit here either. Those blight upon fashion barefoot ware are still at least serving some kind of bio-hacking movement-nerd function.

The trilby however — what function does he serve?

Unless to purely be worn in the midday sun, I do not see that brim performing much in the way of protection.

No, NO! Trilby is pure fashion. One adorns oneself with the short-brimmed horror simply to express themselves. I contemplate this: what might one be trying to express with Trilby? And as I contemplate this, perhaps you contemplate why one, such as I, would become so obsessed with such a topic? What’s in a name? A fedora by any other name would smell as sweet. I have no real answer to your query. I say, good day sir. Good day!

Fedoras and their even wider-brimmed counterparts to me remain classic, timeless. Even if they have been co-opted by Instagram’s bohemian ladies in linen posing on beaches or in styled campervans, touting the latest hemp-infused pottery they keep their period blood in, or whatever. Perhaps this is it; this is the fedora returning to her true form. The ‘radical’ symbol of the self-important, sorry I mean, self-empowered white woman.

Perhaps that was harsh. Let’s return to the point. So, here I am, writing in what is perhaps an anti-fashion fashun magazine, slinging insults at fashion choices. Could the most radical clothing-related thing I could do be to don the ol’ trilby myself? Is it time for me to embrace the fedora tipper within?




CHAPTER 4. THE FEDORA TIPPER WITHIN

I digress. I meet a man in a park. He is not wearing a trilby but admits to me that he is a writer. A writer, you say ... Well I am also a writer. Currently working on an important journalistic exposé on… THE TRILBY.

He admits to me he once was a trilby wearer, or as he then knew them — fedora. A reformed trilby wearer?

Indeed, he was. ‘What kind?’ I ask. ‘Why?’ I ask. ‘How jaunty was the angle?’ I ask.

He indulges me. Here is my interview with Rhys, the former trilby wearer.




Can you tell me when and why you first started wearing a trilby?

I can remember my first trilby well; it was for my year twelve formal (see picture #1). That was the evening to show our best selves, and I wanted to go out of high school with a bang. It took me a while to work up to the courage to wear it, as I felt like I had a lot to live up to. As a sexually repressed and awkward teenager who wanted to be slick with 'the ladies', I had stumbled onto websites that purported to have the secrets to getting positive female regard. This is where I learnt the power of the 'neg' as well as what a sharp outfit can do for the first five seconds of an interaction, when a woman is determining whether or not she will have sex with a man. Although they called them fedoras, most of these sites recommended a combination of a trilby, pointed dress shoes with a hard and slightly raised heel, a dress shirt and slacks as well as a tie or braces (you can see here I've gone for both to maximise my odds).

How did you find out about pick-up artist culture and what drew you to it?

It's very easy to find! If you google ‘How to make girls like me’ you'll quite quickly find a large number of resources. At the time I had a deeply embedded belief that my own romantic and sexual desires were shameful, and that I had to manufacture a facade of palatability and non-threatening-ness to foster intimacy with women. This didn't work, though — I was what Pick-Up Artists (PUAs) call a 'nice guy'. PUA culture opened my eyes to the 'game': the biological determinants of mating behaviour and that this could be 'gamed' and won. The power of this revelation was intoxicating.

Who was the Rhys that wore the trilby? What kind of person were you?

Initially, I was still as contrived as before, though perhaps a bit more playful and audacious, as I had a game to play that could be iterated. Over time, I matured 'Rhys in Trilby' to signify a driven, audacious man that wasn't afraid to go his own way. I think I came off as a bit of a prat, to be honest.

What did wearing a trilby make you feel, if anything?

Donning the trilby was like a transformation. My forehead — normally so exposed — was now encircled by the short, sharp brim and pointed peak of a hat that said 'Watch out, I mean business'. I felt like I was drawing on the lived experience of countless detectives, jazz singers, gangsters, and other powerful renegades.

Do you think that wearing the trilby garnered successful results? I'd say it was an important step in my evolution. Without the trilby, I may never have broken out of my castrated self-loathing. But successful results? I had traded in one type of self-deception for another. The PUA material is useful for the first interaction, or even the second or third, but eventually, you're sitting across from another human who wants to relate with a human, not an identity.

When was the last time you wore a trilby? What made you stop wearing a trilby?

It would have been around 2016. That is about 10 years of trilby-wearing. A long time. I had a regular trilby that fit most occasions by that time (see picture #2). I lost it at a party one weekend, and wasn't able to find another quite like it. After a period, I started wearing other hats. Nowadays, I like the exposure that comes with an unadorned head. Nothing to hide. If I do want to wrap myself in some kind of identity, I currently sport a straight-up flat cap for no-nonsense hip-hop vibes, and I have a felt upturned cap that hits nice notes of playfulness and innocence.

Would you wear a trilby now? Why/why not? Outside of a noir/20s dress-up, I don't think so. There's just too much history. The Rhys that wore a trilby was trying to be something he wasn't. The thing that Sinatra, detectives, and mobsters also have in common is that they were all masterful deceivers. I just have that association now, and I don't think I could go back to that.

Any final words about the trilby?

Sometimes I miss the coverage it gives. Caps just don't do that — a nice facial and neck protection from the ever-near Melbourne drizzle. Functionally, it's quite a good hat.


FINAL CHAPTER: THE FACTS

The name Fedora has become synonymous with ridicule and internet meme culture. Far from her early symbolism of grace and power, now merely a symbol of ‘Basically a man who poses as a gallant crusader for traditional masculinity but who’s basically just a pasty nerd who can’t relate to women.’ (Contrapoints in her video, Cringe).

Can Fedora ever be absolved of such a tarnished reputation? Or has the World Wide Web done her damage beyond repair? Will Fedora ever return to her former glory? Or will she forever be tarred with the brush that was meant for Trilby?

We are yet to find a way of predicting internet meme culture as a society, so I am in the unfortunate position of being unable to answer these queries.

What I can hypothesise is this:

After extensive internet research into the topic I have found evidence that points to the fact that Trilby can indeed be deemed a style of Fedora. Like the rib removed from Adam to create Eve, the trilby is not opposit or other, but in fact from. And the wearing of such an item truly comes down to personal preference, or if one is so inclined, to a matching of a hat to a body shape. One might ask — does but a trilby or a traditional fedora suit me?

If the trilby is in fact not opposed to or other but in fact from, and the original hats — both Trilby and Fedora — were in fact for ‘women’, popularised by someone who could be in fact considered gender fluid or even QUEER, could the real lesson we have learnt here be that both Trilby and Fedora are traditional symbols of gender-fluid fashion? That all those people adopting these hats as a display of traditional masculinity, might be in fact duped and all this time unwittingly participating in the QUEER AGENDA? All this time we have been cringing and making fun of the fedora tippers of the world when perhaps we could have been applauding these MEN for their willingness to wear androgynous fashion — or even, for their desire to be seen as a strong-femme stereotype.

Bless them, I say. Bless them and their hat-related bravery.

*tips Fedora*






By Tenfingerz

Creative director of Fast Fashun. After leaving a career in styling and fashion photography, Tenfingerz has been creating interactive educational fashion events for the past decade. Now embarking on a covid related career pivot, releasing this online magazine while studying professional writing at RMIT.

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